What is the difference between borderline personality disorder and emotionally unstable personality disorder?

Borderline personality disorder (BPD) can cause a wide range of symptoms, which can be broadly grouped into 4 main areas.

The 4 areas are:

  • emotional instability – the psychological term for this is "affective dysregulation"
  • disturbed patterns of thinking or perception – "cognitive distortions" or "perceptual distortions"
  • impulsive behaviour
  • intense but unstable relationships with others

Each of these areas is described in more detail below.

If you have BPD, you may experience a range of often intense negative emotions, such as:

  • rage
  • sorrow
  • shame
  • panic
  • terror
  • long-term feelings of emptiness and loneliness

You may have severe mood swings over a short space of time.

It's common for people with BPD to feel suicidal with despair, and then feel reasonably positive a few hours later. Some people feel better in the morning and some in the evening. The pattern varies, but the key sign is that your moods swing in unpredictable ways.

If you have suicidal thoughts:

  • call your GP or the out-of-hours GP service. If you've taken an overdose or cut or burned yourself, dial 999
  • call the Samaritans on 116 123. This organisation provides emotional support 24 hours a day for people experiencing feelings of distress or despair
  • contact a friend, family member or someone you trust

If you've been diagnosed with BPD, tell someone you trust about your condition. Give this person the contact details of your care team and ask him or her to contact the team if they become concerned about your behaviour.

Different types of thoughts can affect people with BPD, including:

  • upsetting thoughts – such as thinking you're a terrible person or feeling you do not exist. You may not be sure of these thoughts and may seek reassurance that they're not true
  • brief episodes of strange experiences – such as hearing voices outside your head for minutes at a time. These may often feel like instructions to harm yourself or others. You may or may not be certain whether these are real
  • prolonged episodes of abnormal experiences – where you might experience both hallucinations (voices outside your head) and distressing beliefs that no one can talk you out of (such as believing your family are secretly trying to kill you)

These types of beliefs may be psychotic and a sign you're becoming more unwell. It's important to get help if you're struggling with delusions.

If you have BPD, there are 2 main types of impulses you may find extremely difficult to control:

  • an impulse to self-harm – such as cutting your arms with razors or burning your skin with cigarettes; in severe cases, especially if you also feel intensely sad and depressed, this impulse can lead to feeling suicidal and you may attempt suicide
  • a strong impulse to engage in reckless and irresponsible activities – such as binge drinking, drug misuse, going on a spending or gambling spree, or having unprotected sex with strangers

If you have BPD, you may feel that other people abandon you when you most need them, or that they get too close and smother you.

When people fear abandonment, it can lead to feelings of intense anxiety and anger. You may make frantic efforts to prevent being left alone, such as:

  • constantly texting or phoning a person
  • suddenly calling that person in the middle of the night
  • physically clinging on to that person and refusing to let go
  • making threats to harm or kill yourself if that person ever leaves you

Alternatively, you may feel others are smothering, controlling or crowding you, which also provokes intense fear and anger. You may then respond by acting in ways to make people go away, such as emotionally withdrawing, rejecting them or using verbal abuse.

These 2 patterns may result in an unstable "love-hate" relationship with certain people.

Many people with BPD seem to be stuck with a very rigid "black-white" view of relationships. Either a relationship is perfect and that person is wonderful, or the relationship is doomed and that person is terrible. People with BPD seem unable or unwilling to accept any sort of "grey area" in their personal life and relationships.

For many people with BPD, emotional relationships (including relationships with professional carers) involve "go away/please don't go" states of mind, which is confusing for them and their partners. Sadly, this can often lead to break-ups.

Page last reviewed: 17 July 2019
Next review due: 17 July 2022

Synonym: borderline personality disorder

This article refers to the International Classification of Diseases 10th edition (ICD-10) which depicted different types of personality disorder, including emotionally unstable personality disorder. However, the recently published ICD-11 classification does not identify the different types because of overlap between them, and instead focuses on personality traits and severity[2]. See the separate article on Personality Disorders for further details.

Emotionally unstable personality disorder was one of ten personality disorders defined in the ICD-10 classification system. Emotionally unstable personality disorder is characterised by pervasive instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image and mood and impulsive behaviour.

The cause of emotionally unstable personality disorder is unknown but research suggests there is an interaction between adverse life events and genetic factors. Neurobiological research suggests that abnormalities in the frontolimbic networks are associated with many of the symptoms[3].

Emotionally unstable personality disorder causes significantly impaired functioning, including a feeling of emptiness, lack of identity, unstable mood and relationships, intense fear of abandonment and dangerous impulsive behaviour, including severe episodes of self-harm. There is a pattern of sometimes rapid fluctuation from periods of confidence to despair[4].

People with emotionally unstable personality disorder are particularly at risk of suicide[3].

Transient psychotic symptoms, including brief delusions and hallucinations, may also be present. It is also associated with substantial impairment of social, psychological and occupational functioning and quality of life.

Its course is variable and, although many people recover over time, some people may continue to experience social and interpersonal difficulties.

The important feature of emotionally unstable personality disorder is a pervasive pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships, self-perception and moods. Impulses are poorly controlled. At times they may appear psychotic because of the intensity of their distortions.

The ICD-10 classification identified two subtypes - impulsive type and borderline type.

The criteria were as follows:

The general criteria of personality disorder (F60) must be met.

F60.30 Impulsive type

The predominant characteristics are emotional instability and lack of impulse control. Outbursts of violence or threatening behaviour are common, particularly in response to criticism by others.

F60.31 Borderline type

Several of the characteristics of emotional instability are present; in addition, the patient's own self-image, aims, and internal preferences (including sexual) are often unclear or disturbed. There are usually chronic feelings of emptiness. A liability to become involved in intense and unstable relationships may cause repeated emotional crises and may be associated with excessive efforts to avoid abandonment and a series of suicidal threats or acts of self-harm (although these may occur without obvious precipitants). 

  • Epidemiological data need to be interpreted with care, as diagnostic standards vary.
  • Personality disorders as a whole are common conditions. There is considerable variation in severity and in the degree of distress and dysfunction caused.
  • Some studies estimate that personality disorder affects 4-11% of the UK population and between 60-70% of the prison population[7].
  • The prevalence of emotionally unstable personality disorder (which the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) still refers to as 'borderline personality disorder') in the general population is 1%.
  • It is less common in the elderly.
  • NICE emphasises that 'borderline personality disorder' should not be diagnosed under the age of 18, although characteristic personality traits can be detected at an earlier age.
  • Although overall personality disorders are distributed equally between males and females, emotionally unstable personality disorder is more common amongst females. One study reported a prevalence of 30.1% in males and 52.8% in females[8].

Patients with the disorder can present with:

  • Relationship difficulties.
  • Recurrent self-harm.
  • Threats of suicide.
  • Depression.
  • Bouts of anger.
  • Impulsivity.
  • Social difficulties.
  • Transient psychotic symptoms. These were mooted to occur in 'borderline personality disorder' but were not included in the ICD-10 criteria[5, 9].
  • Toxicology screen because substance abuse is common (as with many personality disorders). Intoxication can lead patients to present with some features of personality disorders[10].
  • Screening for HIV and other sexually transmitted infections may be appropriate because of the poor impulse control and disregard of risk associated with personality disorder[11].
  • Psychological testing may support or direct the clinical diagnosis. Those cited by NICE are:
    • Diagnostic Interview for DSM-IV Personality Disorders (DIPD-IV).
    • Structured Clinical Interview for DSM-IV Personality Disorders (SCID-II).
    • Structured Interview for DSM-IV Personality (SIDP-IV).
    • International Personality Disorder Examination (IPDE).
    • Personality Assessment Schedule (PAS).
    • Standardised Assessment of Personality (SAP).
  • Anxiety.
  • Alcohol misuse.
  • Drug misuse.
  • Depression.
  • Recurrent self-harm.
  • Eating disorders.
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder.
  • Physical conditions[13]:
    • Arteriosclerosis
    • Hypertension
    • Hepatic disease
    • Cardiovascular disease
    • Gastrointestinal disease
    • Arthritis
    • Sexually transmitted infections

NICE guidance to inform clinical commissioning groups has been published to guide the commissioning of services for people with emotionally unstable personality disorder and dissocial disorder. This draws on prevailing guidance on a large body of resources, encompassing such issues as avoiding the integration of services, wider determinants of health and reducing the delay in the provision of care and support[6].

General considerations

Care should involve collaboration between different agencies and professionals. Teams working with people with emotionally unstable personality disorder should develop a comprehensive multidisciplinary care plan with the service user (and their family or carers, where agreed with the person). The care plan should:

  • Identify clearly the roles and responsibilities of all health and social care professionals.
  • Identify manageable short-term treatment aims and specify steps that the person and others might take to achieve them.
  • Identify long-term goals (including employment), which the person would like to achieve. These should underpin the overall long-term treatment strategy.
  • Develop a crisis plan which:
    • Identifies potential triggers that could lead to a crisis.
    • Specifies self-management strategies likely to be effective.
    • Establishes how to access services (including support numbers for out-of-hours teams and crisis teams).
  • Be shared with the GP and the service user.

Psychotherapy is a helpful mode of treatment in emotionally unstable personality disorder, although no specific type of therapy seems better than another[3]. It is important however NOT to use brief psychological interventions (of less than three months in duration) for emotionally unstable personality disorder or for the individual symptoms of the disorder outside a service that has the characteristics outlined below. Psychological treatment for people with emotionally unstable personality disorder (especially those with multiple comorbidities and severe impairment) should include:

  • An explicit and integrated theoretical approach used by both the treatment team and the therapist, which is shared with the service user.
  • Structured care in accordance with this guideline.
  • Provision for therapist supervision.
  • Twice-weekly sessions (although the frequency of psychotherapy sessions should be adapted to the person's needs).

Drug treatment

  • A Cochrane review concluded that mood stabilisers and second-generation antipsychotics may be effective for treating a number of core symptoms and associated psychopathology, although the overall severity of emotionally unstable personality disorder is not affected. Drugs should therefore be targeted at specific symptoms[15].
  • There is some support for clozapine in the literature, particularly in adolescents with emerging emotionally unstable personality disorder when other treatment options have been exhausted[16].
  • Consider drug treatment in the overall treatment of comorbid conditions.
  • Consider cautiously short-term use of sedative medication as part of the overall treatment plan for people with emotionally unstable personality disorder in a crisis. Agree the duration of treatment with them; however, it should be no longer than one week.
  • Prescribing for this indication is largely off-label and idiosyncratic. Therefore, review the treatment of those who do not have a diagnosed comorbid mental or physical illness and who are currently being prescribed drugs. Aim to reduce and stop unnecessary drug treatment[17].

Management in primary care

  • Recognise:
    • Repeatedly self-harmed.
    • Persistent risk-taking behaviour.
    • Marked emotional instability.
  • Refer:
    • To community mental health services for assessment for emotionally unstable personality disorder.
    • If the person is younger than 18 years, refer them to The Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) for assessment.
  • Crisis management: consult the patient's crisis plan (a plan devised to identify trigger factors, advise on self-help strategies and identify when the individual should seek professional help):
    • Assess problem and risk:
      • Maintain a calm and non-threatening attitude.
      • Try to understand the crisis from the person's point of view.
      • Explore the person's reasons for distress.
      • Use empathetic open questioning, including validating statements, to identify the onset and the course of the current problems.
      • Seek to stimulate reflection about solutions.
      • Avoid minimising the person's stated reasons for the crisis.
      • Wait for full clarification of the problems before offering solutions.
      • Explore other options before considering admission to a crisis unit, or inpatient admission.
      • Offer appropriate follow-up within a timeframe agreed with the person.
      • Assess risk to self or to others.
      • Ask about previous episodes and effective management strategies used in the past.
      • Help to manage their anxiety by enhancing coping skills and helping them to focus on the current problems.
      • Encourage them to identify manageable changes that will enable them to deal with the current problems.
      • Offer a follow-up appointment at an agreed time.
    • Refer in crisis to community mental health services especially when:
      • Levels of distress and/or the risk of harm to self or to others are increasing.
      • Levels of distress and/or the risk of harm to self or to others have not subsided despite attempts to reduce anxiety and improve coping skills.
      • Patients request further help from specialist services.
  • Suicide[12]
  • Substance abuse
  • Accidental injury
  • Depression
  • Homicide

The course of emotionally unstable personality disorder is variable and, although many people recover or improve over time, many continue to experience social and interpersonal difficulties.

There is evidence that novel indicated prevention and early intervention programmes may be useful in reducing the risk of developing emotionally unstable personality disorder. Indicated prevention involves identifying individuals who exhibit early signs of early conduct problems and/or have an increased risk for a disorder but currently do not have a diagnosable disorder. Early intervention programmes involve a system of co-ordinated services that promotes a child's age-appropriate growth and development and supports families during the critical early years. This approach is promising but requires further research.

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