When does Capulet tell Juliet to marry Paris

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  • 1.1: Lord Capulet runs out into the street and tries to join in the brawl between the servants of the Capulets and Montagues. His wife holds him back. At the end of the scene, the Prince reprimands Lord Capulet and orders him to come talk about ending the violence in the streets.
  • 1.2: When Paris asks for Juliet's hand in marriage, Lord Capulet tells him that Juliet is too young to get married. ("Too soon marred are those so early made," he says, clearly referencing his own wife, whom he married when she was younger than Juliet. In retrospect, Lord Capulet seems to think that marrying her when she was so young was a bad idea.) He also says he will not agree to let anyone marry Juliet unless his daughter consents to the match. He suggests that Paris start to get to know Juliet at the party the Capulets are holding that night.
  • 1.5: Lord Capulet is in host mode at the party. But when Tybalt wants to fight Romeo for daring to crash the party, Lord Capulet reveals a violent side. He furiously orders Tybalt to ignore Romeo and not to ruin the party.
  • 3.1: Here he has no lines, but Lord Capulet is probably with his wife when they discover that Tybalt has been killed by Romeo. Shakespeare leaves all the verbal grieving to the women.
  • 3.4: Paris, with classic bad timing, arrives to discuss wedding plans while the family is in mourning for Tybalt's death. Lord Capulet, worried by his daughter's frantic grief over her cousin's death, decides that marriage might help her recover. He decides that Juliet and Paris should be married later that week.
  • 3.5: Lord Capulet expects that Juliet will be grateful that he has found her a handsome and eligible husband. Instead, she refuses to marry Paris and can give no clear explanation why. Lord Capulet is furious at his daughter's rejection of his plan. He tells her that she can either obey him and marry his friend Paris, or that she can leave his house and live in the streets.
  • 4.2: Lord Capulet is going on with his preparations for the wedding, whether or not Juliet likes it. Happily for him, she comes back from a visit to Friar Laurence and apologizes for her behavior. Lord Capulet rejoices at her agreement to marry Paris and decides to move the wedding to the very next day. He doesn't care if he has to stay up all night – he wants to make it happen immediately.
  • 4.4: Lord Capulet is bustling around happily making all the last minute arrangements for the wedding. He orders the Nurse to wake up Juliet. Paris is about to arrive at the house.
  • 4.5: The Nurse discovers Juliet dead. Lord Capulet mourns over the loss of his only child. "Death is my son-in-law," he laments.
  • 5.3: Lord Capulet thought his daughter was already dead, and then he discovers her bleeding on the floor of the family tomb. In grief at their children's death, both Lord Capulet and Lord Montague vow to end the fighting between their families and to raise a golden statue in memory of each other's child.

When does Capulet tell Juliet to marry Paris

Count Paris, a kinsman of the Prince, tells Capulet that he wants to marry his daughter, Juliet. Capulet’s a little reluctant to agree because his daughter is so young, but he tells Paris that if he can woo Juliet successfully, then he’ll grant him permission to marry her. To help his cause, he invites Paris to a party they’re having at the Capulet house that night. Capulet then gives his servant a guest list for the party, and asks him to track down and invite the people on it. The servant, who is illiterate, then asks the passing Romeo and Benvolio for help reading it. Realizing that Rosaline—the object of Romeo’s unrequited love—is on the list, Romeo and Benvolio hatch a plan to attend the party, even though it’s at the enemy house. For his part, Benvolio is convinced that when Romeo sees Rosaline with all the other beautiful young women of Verona, he’ll realize that she pales in comparison.

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A street fight breaks out between the Montagues and the Capulets, which is broken up by the ruler of Verona,…

In conversation with Capulet, Count Paris declares his wish to marry Juliet. Capulet invites him to a party that night….

Lady Capulet informs Juliet of Paris’s marriage proposal and praises him extravagantly. Juliet says that she has not even dreamed…

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Capulet welcomes the disguised Romeo and his friends. Romeo, watching the dance, is caught by the beauty of Juliet. Overhearing…

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Juliet waits impatiently for the Nurse to return. Her impatience grows when the Nurse, having returned, is slow to deliver…

Juliet meets Romeo at Friar Lawrence’s cell. After expressing their mutual love, they exit with the Friar to be married.

Mercutio and Benvolio encounter Tybalt on the street. As soon as Romeo arrives, Tybalt tries to provoke him to fight….

Juliet longs for Romeo to come to her. The Nurse arrives with the news that Romeo has killed Tybalt and…

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Romeo and Juliet separate at the first light of day. Almost immediately her mother comes to announce that Juliet must…

Paris is talking with Friar Lawrence about the coming wedding when Juliet arrives. After Paris leaves, she threatens suicide if…

Capulet energetically directs preparations for the wedding. When Juliet returns from Friar Lawrence and pretends to have learned obedience, Capulet…

Juliet sends the Nurse away for the night. After facing her terror at the prospect of awaking in her family’s…

The Capulets and the Nurse stay up all night to get ready for the wedding. Capulet, hearing Paris approach with…

The Nurse finds Juliet in the deathlike trance caused by the Friar’s potion and announces Juliet’s death. Juliet’s parents and…

Romeo’s man, Balthasar, arrives in Mantua with news of Juliet’s death. Romeo sends him to hire horses for their immediate…

Friar John enters, bringing with him the letter that he was to have delivered to Romeo. He tells why he…

Paris visits Juliet’s tomb and, when Romeo arrives, challenges him. Romeo and Paris fight and Paris is killed. Romeo, in…

Enter Lady Capulet and Nurse.

LADY CAPULET 


 Nurse, where’s my daughter? Call her forth to me.
NURSE 
 Now, by my maidenhead at twelve year old,
 I bade her come.—What, lamb! What, ladybird!
 God forbid. Where’s this girl? What, Juliet!

Enter Juliet.

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JULIET 5How now, who calls?
NURSE Your mother.
JULIET 
 Madam, I am here. What is your will?
LADY CAPULET 
 This is the matter.—Nurse, give leave awhile.
 We must talk in secret.—Nurse, come back again.
10 I have remembered me, thou ’s hear our counsel.
 Thou knowest my daughter’s of a pretty age.
NURSE 
 Faith, I can tell her age unto an hour.
LADY CAPULET She’s not fourteen.
NURSE I’ll lay fourteen of my teeth (and yet, to my teen
15 be it spoken, I have but four) she’s not fourteen.
 How long is it now to Lammastide?
LADY CAPULET A fortnight and odd days.
NURSE 
 Even or odd, of all days in the year,
 Come Lammas Eve at night shall she be fourteen.
20 Susan and she (God rest all Christian souls!)
 Were of an age. Well, Susan is with God;
 She was too good for me. But, as I said,
 On Lammas Eve at night shall she be fourteen.
 That shall she. Marry, I remember it well.
25 ’Tis since the earthquake now eleven years,
 And she was weaned (I never shall forget it)
 Of all the days of the year, upon that day.
 For I had then laid wormwood to my dug,
 Sitting in the sun under the dovehouse wall.
30 My lord and you were then at Mantua.
 Nay, I do bear a brain. But, as I said,
 When it did taste the wormwood on the nipple
 Of my dug and felt it bitter, pretty fool,
 To see it tetchy and fall out with the dug.
35 “Shake,” quoth the dovehouse. ’Twas no need, I
 trow,

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 To bid me trudge.
 And since that time it is eleven years.
 For then she could stand high-lone. Nay, by th’
40 rood,
 She could have run and waddled all about,
 For even the day before, she broke her brow,
 And then my husband (God be with his soul,
 He was a merry man) took up the child.
45 “Yea,” quoth he, “Dost thou fall upon thy face?
 Thou wilt fall backward when thou hast more wit,
 Wilt thou not, Jule?” And, by my holidam,
 The pretty wretch left crying and said “Ay.”
 To see now how a jest shall come about!
50 I warrant, an I should live a thousand years,
 I never should forget it. “Wilt thou not, Jule?”
 quoth he.
 And, pretty fool, it stinted and said “Ay.”
LADY CAPULET 
 Enough of this. I pray thee, hold thy peace.
NURSE 
55 Yes, madam, yet I cannot choose but laugh
 To think it should leave crying and say “Ay.”
 And yet, I warrant, it had upon its brow
 A bump as big as a young cock’rel’s stone,
 A perilous knock, and it cried bitterly.
60 “Yea,” quoth my husband. “Fall’st upon thy face?
 Thou wilt fall backward when thou comest to age,
 Wilt thou not, Jule?” It stinted and said “Ay.”
JULIET 
 And stint thou, too, I pray thee, nurse, say I.
NURSE 
 Peace. I have done. God mark thee to his grace,
65 Thou wast the prettiest babe that e’er I nursed.
 An I might live to see thee married once,
 I have my wish.

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LADY CAPULET 
 Marry, that “marry” is the very theme
 I came to talk of.—Tell me, daughter Juliet,
70 How stands your disposition to be married?
JULIET 
 It is an honor that I dream not of.
NURSE 
 An honor? Were not I thine only nurse,
 I would say thou hadst sucked wisdom from thy
 teat.
LADY CAPULET 
75 Well, think of marriage now. Younger than you
 Here in Verona, ladies of esteem,
 Are made already mothers. By my count
 I was your mother much upon these years
 That you are now a maid. Thus, then, in brief:
80 The valiant Paris seeks you for his love.
NURSE 
 A man, young lady—lady, such a man
 As all the world—why, he’s a man of wax.
LADY CAPULET 
 Verona’s summer hath not such a flower.
NURSE 
 Nay, he’s a flower, in faith, a very flower.
LADY CAPULET 
85 What say you? Can you love the gentleman?
 This night you shall behold him at our feast.
 Read o’er the volume of young Paris’ face,
 And find delight writ there with beauty’s pen.
 Examine every married lineament
90 And see how one another lends content,
 And what obscured in this fair volume lies
 Find written in the margent of his eyes.
 This precious book of love, this unbound lover,
 To beautify him only lacks a cover.
95 The fish lives in the sea, and ’tis much pride

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 For fair without the fair within to hide.
 That book in many’s eyes doth share the glory
 That in gold clasps locks in the golden story.
 So shall you share all that he doth possess
100 By having him, making yourself no less.
NURSE 
 No less? Nay, bigger. Women grow by men.
LADY CAPULET 
 Speak briefly. Can you like of Paris’ love?
JULIET 
 I’ll look to like, if looking liking move.
 But no more deep will I endart mine eye
105 Than your consent gives strength to make it fly.

Enter Servingman.

SERVINGMAN Madam, the guests are come, supper


 served up, you called, my young lady asked for, the
 Nurse cursed in the pantry, and everything in
 extremity. I must hence to wait. I beseech you,
110 follow straight.
LADY CAPULET 
 We follow thee.Servingman exits.
 Juliet, the County stays.
NURSE 
 Go, girl, seek happy nights to happy days.
They exit.