You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

Facebook Messenger is one of the most widely used messaging services, and you probably know at least a few people who use it exclusively. Some people are moving away from Facebook, but still want to use the Messenger app. It once was possible to use Facebook Messenger without having a Facebook account at all. All you needed was a phone number to sign up. In December of 2019, Facebook quietly phased out that option. Now, you must have a Facebook account to make a Messenger account. There’s a sweet little loophole to get around this fact, though. Here’s what you need to know.

Contents

  • How to use Facebook Messenger without a Facebook account
  • Getting a Facebook account
  • Set up Messenger
  • How to deactivate your Facebook account and keep Facebook Messenger

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How to use Facebook Messenger without a Facebook account

It turns out that you can still use Messenger after you deactivate your Facebook account. This means if you hate Facebook, you can deactivate your account and still use your favorite messaging app, no problem. It also means that if you don’t have Messenger, but want it, you can get it without keeping an active account up. You get what you want without needing Facebook. Now, you just need to set everything up.

Getting a Facebook account

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

If you’re super anti-Facebook, don’t worry. You don’t need to set up a full-blown profile to get access to Messenger. Just go to Facebook.com and fill out the boxes under Create a New Account. If you don’t want Facebook to have your real phone number, create an alternate phone number using Google Voice and have it forward to your phone. Then click the Sign Up button and confirm your phone number. Skip over all of the other things like adding a profile photo or adding friends.

Set up Messenger

Now that you have your shell Facebook account, you can set up your Messenger. Download the Facebook Messenger app to your Android or iOS device. Open the app. Tap the Create new account button and sign up using your name and the phone number you used for your Facebook account.

How to deactivate your Facebook account and keep Facebook Messenger

Now you can deactivate your Facebook account. On desktop, open the menu and click Settings, choose Your Facebook Information, and tap the Deactivate and Deletion option.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

Choose Deactivate from the options on the new page. Be sure not to choose the Permanently Delete Account option, because you won’t be able to use Messenger if you totally delete your account.  Click Continue to Account Deactivation and enter your password.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
To finish up, complete the survey and deactivate your Facebook account. Your Facebook account will now be deactivated and you’ll be able to continue using Facebook Messenger. That’s all there is to it. You should now be able to use Facebook Messenger just as easily as anyone else. Through Messenger, you can upload photos, videos, start group chats, and more — all without a Facebook account. You can now download Facebook’s Messenger app to your desktop, too.

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You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

For some of you, whether or not to delete Facebook is a daily struggle. One reason you might not have pulled the trigger on your Facebook account yet could be because of Messenger, which provides millions of people with different devices an easy way to communicate with each other. But here's a secret you might not know: you don't need to have a Facebook account to use Facebook's popular chat app.

To be clear, though, you do need to keep your Facebook account if you want to hang on to your Messenger app as it stands. Deleting your Facebook erases your Messenger account and all of your chats, so if you don't want to lose that data, you can't go nuclear.

However, that doesn't mean you can't use Messenger without Facebook — you just have to start from scratch. We'll show you how easy it is to set up a new Messenger account without a Facebook account, and afterward, we'll briefly talk about another option available to you if you want to keep the Messenger account you have right now that's connected to your Facebook.

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You Don't Need to Delete Your Current Messenger Account

If you genuinely want to use Messenger without having any other connection to Facebook, you will have to make a new Messenger account. Starting a new Messenger account still lets you message people on Facebook, so you won't miss out there. You can delete your old Messenger account if you have one, but it isn't necessary for making a standalone Messenger account. If you have an existing Facebook account, though, you may hit some annoying hiccups.

Step 1: Start from Scratch with Messenger

To begin, either install the Messenger app on your device, if you don't already have it, or delete and reinstall Messenger, then open it. If you don't have an active Facebook account on your device, tap "Create New Account" on the first screen. Otherwise, with an active Facebook account on your phone, Messenger will try to log you in using that, but you can avoid this by tapping "This isn't me" at the bottom, then tap on "Create New Account."

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You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

If you're using an Android phone, you may need to tap "Continue" on a pop-up before moving on to the next step. You won't see this pop-up on an iPhone.

Step 2: Enter Phone Number & Create Password

On the signup screen, enter your phone number when prompted, then tap "Next." Now, you'll have the option to create a password. Facebook isn't clear about exactly what it needs from your password, but it will stop you if your password isn't strong enough. So, try to make it something with at least a small variety of punctuations and numbers. However, we recommend you use as strong a password as you can.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

Step 3: Add Name & Confirm Phone Number

After choosing a password, enter your name, then tap "Next." On the following page, tap "Create Account," then enter the code sent to your attached phone number. If you don't see the code, you'll have the option to resend the code after 60 seconds. If you need to change your number entirely, tap "Change number" and follow the instructions before eventually returning to this point.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

Step 4: Skip Login (If Applicable) & Add a Photo

If your phone is tied to an existing Messenger or Facebook account, Messenger may present you the option to log in with that account. Just tap "This isn't my account" to skip that option.

Next, you'll have the option to add a photo to your profile. You can either choose one from your phone or take one then and there with your camera. Choose the option that works best for you, and remember that you can always change your profile picture once your account is all set up. You will need to grant Messenger the appropriate permissions for the option you choose, i.e., Photo app access if choosing a photo on your phone, and Camera app access if taking a new photo.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

If you don't want to add a photo at this time, tap "Not Now" to skip it.

Step 5: Enable or Disable Notification & Contacts Permissions

Next, Messenger will want permission to send you notifications, which makes sense, as an excellent messaging app should send you reliable, real-time notifications when you receive a new message. However, you can always deny Messenger permission to send notifications, to keep the messaging to the app itself. This option can be changed later, so feel free to choose whatever option works for you. Just know that Chat Heads on Android may not work, if you want to use those.

Next, Messenger will want you to connect your phone's contacts, so you can find and message these people on the app. You can enable this by tapping "Turn On" and granting Messenger permission to your phone's contacts on the pop-up. However, you can also choose "Not Now" if you'd rather not let Messenger see your contacts. You'll need to tap "Continue" on the following pop-up to move forward. Again, you can change this option later.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

Step 6: Start Messaging Contacts

Congratulations! You've successfully created a Messenger account with no ties to a Facebook profile. If you linked your contacts, those with Facebook accounts would appear here. Otherwise, you can effortlessly search for the names of any Facebook contacts you're missing.

You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook
You were friends on facebook using messenger without facebook

If you're sick of Facebook and already have a Messenger account connected to that, you can deactivate your Facebook account instead of deleting it. Doing so will allow you to use Messenger still while you're Facebook account is on hold.

This article was produced during Gadget Hacks' special coverage on texting, instant messaging, calling, and audio/video chatting with your smartphone. Check out the whole Chat series.

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What does it mean when it says using Messenger without Facebook?

You can still chat with friends on Messenger. Your picture will only be visible in your conversations on Messenger. Other people can search for you in Messenger and send you a message. You won't be searchable on Facebook.

Can you be friends with someone on Messenger and not Facebook?

Message your mobile contacts in Messenger if you're not Facebook friends. You can upload your device's contacts to your Messenger app and then message them from the app. To let people who have your mobile number send you a message, confirm your phone number on Messenger. Open your Messenger app.

Why is someone on Messenger but not friends on Facebook?

Open the Facebook app and conduct a search for your friend's name. If they appear in the search results after typing their name, then they might have blocked you on Facebook Messenger, but not on Facebook. But if your friend's account doesn't appear, this doesn't necessarily mean they've also blocked you on Facebook.

Are Facebook friends automatically on Messenger?

Facebook friends are automatically added to the Messenger app when you sign in to Messenger with your Facebook account login details. To start a conversation with a Facebook friend in Messenger: Open Messenger. From the Chats screen, tap the Compose Message icon on the top right.